Growth has to begin somewhere. Start by exploring both the constructive and the destructive aspects of your nature. First you must deal with the negative. By dealing with what doesn't work in your life, you are going to know what excuses not to fall back on. You will know why you are not doing that things you've dreamed of doing. You will know why you stay with people who don't support and love you. It's a simple matter of deciding which direction you want to put your energies into...positive or negative.
Once you understand the consequences of your negative qualities, you could say, "Hold on...do I really want to feel this way or go down this path again? I've been so many times and I know that what I'm about to say or do or feel is not going to change things"
I'd rather choose a positive option when dealing with a negative situation which hopefullu help me resolve this constant repetition of old patterns of behavior. Once I have decided that I can make a positive change, then it merely takes the courage to give it a try.
Breaking destructive patterns is the gateway to getting on with your life. Positive input only becomes significant after you deal with the limiting negative factors. Sure, confronting the negative will make you uncomfortable, but the discomfort is necessary...change never occurs without it.
Once you understand your negative characteristics, you can claim your real self by saying, "Hold on, I don't buy into this anymore." Once you resolve these issues you will be able to reclaim the dreams of your life and enact them. And for every problem, you will be able to find a positive solution.
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