Nine Requisite For Contented Living:
Health enough to make work a pleasure.
Wealth enough to support your needs.
Strength to battle with difficulties and overcome them.
Grace enough to confess your sins and forsake them.
Patience enough to toil until some good is accomplished.
Charity enough to see some good in your neighbor.
Love enough to move you to be useful and helpful to others.
Faith enough to make real the things of God.
Hope enough to remove all anxious fears concerning the future.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Contentment is a pearl of great price, and whoever procures it at the expense of ten thousand desires makes a wise and a happy purchase.
Balguy
If a man has come to that point where he is so content that he says; I do not want to know any more, or do any more or be any more, he is in a state in which he ought to be changed into a mummy.
Henry Ward Beecher
Contentment is not happiness. An oyster may be contented.
Christian Bovee
I am content with what I have, little be it, or much.
John Bunyan
It is not being out at heels that makes a man discontented, it is being out at heart. To be contented is to be good friends with yourself.
Bliss Carman
Intelligent discontent is the mainspring of civillization.
Eugene V. Debs
All our discontents spring from the want of thankfulness for what we have.
Daniel Defoe
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Power Of Prevention Works
I've always found it much easier to prevent certain things from happening than to fix or repair them afterwards. This applies to everything from health-related issues, to business decisions, and even personal relationships. By reminding yourself of the power of prevention and implementing its wisdom into your life, you can save yourself a great deal of grief, and, in the process, reduce some of the stress you experience.
It's easier for me, for example, to keep my weight down rather than to lose weight knowing this makes it easier for me to day NO to certain foods or to avoid excessive quantities. I simply remind myself that it's not worth the trade-off. The same applies to exercise. As hard as it can be to find the time, it's still easier to prioritize regular exercise....and stay in shape....than it is to try to get back into shape after weeks or months of nonactivity. Reminding myself of this simple truth sparks my energy level and resolve to exercise.
The same true in many business-related ventures. By attending to details up front, right from the start, you can prevent problems down the road. A background or reference check, for example, could in certain instances uncover information that would convince you not to hire someone. In this case, you might be preventing problems down the line. In addition, by practicing ongoing ethical business practices today, you create the necessary goodwill that can help you for years to come.
I've found that the idea of prevention also applies to my personal relationships....spouse, kids, and friends. These are just a few of the ways that prevention can make our lives better and easier. I'm sure that, if you think about your own life, you'll discover, as I have, the power of prevention.
It's easier for me, for example, to keep my weight down rather than to lose weight knowing this makes it easier for me to day NO to certain foods or to avoid excessive quantities. I simply remind myself that it's not worth the trade-off. The same applies to exercise. As hard as it can be to find the time, it's still easier to prioritize regular exercise....and stay in shape....than it is to try to get back into shape after weeks or months of nonactivity. Reminding myself of this simple truth sparks my energy level and resolve to exercise.
The same true in many business-related ventures. By attending to details up front, right from the start, you can prevent problems down the road. A background or reference check, for example, could in certain instances uncover information that would convince you not to hire someone. In this case, you might be preventing problems down the line. In addition, by practicing ongoing ethical business practices today, you create the necessary goodwill that can help you for years to come.
I've found that the idea of prevention also applies to my personal relationships....spouse, kids, and friends. These are just a few of the ways that prevention can make our lives better and easier. I'm sure that, if you think about your own life, you'll discover, as I have, the power of prevention.
Do Not Be Indecisive In Life
In every field there is an endless variety. A fickle-minded person becomes easily confused in choosing and deciding things. But if you see deeply, there is an underlying unity in this great diversity. The diversity and duality that we see in the world are due to ignorance. Actually, the same thing is reflected in various forms. Only the outer covering are different. The inside of everything is the same.
Spiritually endowed people are able to see such unity in this endless variety, and therefore are never disturbed or confused.
Because of this inherent unity, any field of work can bring you the same happiness, which depends more on your consciousness and attitude, than on the work itself.
Hence, opt out of the rat race of comparison which ultimately leads to madness without any resolution.
Spiritually endowed people are able to see such unity in this endless variety, and therefore are never disturbed or confused.
Because of this inherent unity, any field of work can bring you the same happiness, which depends more on your consciousness and attitude, than on the work itself.
Hence, opt out of the rat race of comparison which ultimately leads to madness without any resolution.
Avoid Giving Advice To Others
It is a good idea to avoid giving advice to others, unless asked. Concentrate only on your own progress in life. Do not waste time interfering in what others are doing. Also, avoid criticizing and finding faults with the deeds of others; only a person who is above criticism is fit to make a remark or comment on others.
Some people are in the habit of giving unsolicited, unwanted, and unnecessary advice to everyone. Give advice only when asked for it. If you are not qualified to comment, admit it instead of giving incorrect or vague advice.
It is always better to teach through example than through preaching. This is more powerful and effective. Also, you cannot persuade anyone against his will.
If you are running your own business or having a managerial position and have to get work done by your subordinate, it is inevitable that you will need to make criticism about their work. But again, this should be done in the spirit of suggestion, without involving ego disputes.
Some people are in the habit of giving unsolicited, unwanted, and unnecessary advice to everyone. Give advice only when asked for it. If you are not qualified to comment, admit it instead of giving incorrect or vague advice.
It is always better to teach through example than through preaching. This is more powerful and effective. Also, you cannot persuade anyone against his will.
If you are running your own business or having a managerial position and have to get work done by your subordinate, it is inevitable that you will need to make criticism about their work. But again, this should be done in the spirit of suggestion, without involving ego disputes.
Avoid Greediness In Life
Avoid greediness, everything belongs to God. Do not claim anything as your own.. Whatever you claim as your own, is actually given to you only for temporary use as means to achieve your goals. All these possession will leave you one by one after their purpose is served.
It is not a good idea to become attached to any worldly possession and do not identify yourself with them. You are simply a caretaker for some time.
It is a good idea to avoid greediness, hoarding, and collecting of worldly possessions, which are perishable, changeable, and subject to decay anyway by their nature. You should be able to leave any worldly possession at a moment's notice. With this attitude you can eliminate the jealousy that is generated when you compare your possessions with others.
It is not a good idea to become attached to any worldly possession and do not identify yourself with them. You are simply a caretaker for some time.
It is a good idea to avoid greediness, hoarding, and collecting of worldly possessions, which are perishable, changeable, and subject to decay anyway by their nature. You should be able to leave any worldly possession at a moment's notice. With this attitude you can eliminate the jealousy that is generated when you compare your possessions with others.
Monday, July 9, 2007
Realize Your Unlimited Power
Every person has the power to please others.
Every person has the power to make others happy.
Every person has the power to encourage others.
Every person has the power to help others.
Every person has the power to forgive others.
Every person has the power to make other people laugh.
Most people don't try to use this power.
When you have absolute faith in your hidden power, your talent will be demonstrated. The first step, when facing a job you have to do or a difficulty you have to solve, is to believe that you can definitely handle this task. The more energy you use, the more energy will spring forth with overwhelming power. So have total faith in your power. In this way you'll be able to accomplish any task, however difficult.
Everyone wishes for power. But power itself has no power. If good people possess power, the power becomes wonderfully strong. Such people demonstrate great power, leading the world to peace and others to happiness.That's the nature of power.
Why do you think you need power? If you think you need power for the sake of achieving your selfish desires, you are better off withour it. If, on the other hand, you wish for power to lead mankind to peace and happiness, God will grant you happily.
Every person has the power to make others happy.
Every person has the power to encourage others.
Every person has the power to help others.
Every person has the power to forgive others.
Every person has the power to make other people laugh.
Most people don't try to use this power.
When you have absolute faith in your hidden power, your talent will be demonstrated. The first step, when facing a job you have to do or a difficulty you have to solve, is to believe that you can definitely handle this task. The more energy you use, the more energy will spring forth with overwhelming power. So have total faith in your power. In this way you'll be able to accomplish any task, however difficult.
Everyone wishes for power. But power itself has no power. If good people possess power, the power becomes wonderfully strong. Such people demonstrate great power, leading the world to peace and others to happiness.That's the nature of power.
Why do you think you need power? If you think you need power for the sake of achieving your selfish desires, you are better off withour it. If, on the other hand, you wish for power to lead mankind to peace and happiness, God will grant you happily.
How To Face Your Fears
Everyone has some sort of fear in life. It may be brought about by any one or more of the following reasons:
1. By their own negative way of thinking most of the time. But are you going to let fear take over life?
2. By the influence of other people.
3. By a sad past incident.
You must take the necessary steps to overcome your fear. It's all in the mind.
Do you want to be a doctor but you are afraid that your intellect can't handle the pressure or are you worried about financial insecurity?
My suggestion is to face your fear head-on. If you are really determined to achieve your deepest desires and aspirations, a powerful force will enable you to reach them amidst every obstacle that comes in the way. Someone or something will always be there to help you attain your goals. Just have faith in your abilities. Your Will Power have the utmost capacity to accomplish anything with the proper mindset.
You could also use Visualization Method to help you in overpowering any kind of fear. Are you afraid of heights? Then imagine yourself being on top of a mountain, overseeing the magnificent sights. Enjoy and feel the moment. Take away all worries and anxieties.
This applies to whatever thing that triggers your fear factor. Just imagine being able to defeat it, then confront with the definite belief that you have the will power and capacity to do everything you want if you put your mind to it.
You must try your level best to control your fear before it controls you. It implies that with the proper mindset, determination, and will power, you can conquer your fears.
1. By their own negative way of thinking most of the time. But are you going to let fear take over life?
2. By the influence of other people.
3. By a sad past incident.
You must take the necessary steps to overcome your fear. It's all in the mind.
Do you want to be a doctor but you are afraid that your intellect can't handle the pressure or are you worried about financial insecurity?
My suggestion is to face your fear head-on. If you are really determined to achieve your deepest desires and aspirations, a powerful force will enable you to reach them amidst every obstacle that comes in the way. Someone or something will always be there to help you attain your goals. Just have faith in your abilities. Your Will Power have the utmost capacity to accomplish anything with the proper mindset.
You could also use Visualization Method to help you in overpowering any kind of fear. Are you afraid of heights? Then imagine yourself being on top of a mountain, overseeing the magnificent sights. Enjoy and feel the moment. Take away all worries and anxieties.
This applies to whatever thing that triggers your fear factor. Just imagine being able to defeat it, then confront with the definite belief that you have the will power and capacity to do everything you want if you put your mind to it.
You must try your level best to control your fear before it controls you. It implies that with the proper mindset, determination, and will power, you can conquer your fears.
Always Love Your job
You just won't find anyone who has achieved massive success by doing something that they hate. To achieve success, you must find something that you absolutely love to do. Something that you cannot do. And do it well. Do it with passion, with excitement, with enthusiasm, with a healthy obsession.
That is not to say that you must become a workaholic. Because when you find something that you absolutely love to do, it's not work. Obsession with making money creates workaholics. Focusing on limitation creates workaholic. Don't focus pn making money, because then you'll be working. Focus instead on creating your dream job, on doing what you love to do the most. The money will come, but it is only one measure of your success. More importantly, you'll grow as a person. You'll grow into the person you were meant to be. You will fulfill your potential and make your unique contribution to the world. And that is worth far more than any check that anyone could write to you.
If your goal is to get to the point where you never have to work again, perhaps you should examine the nature of your work.
Hating what you do will probably not get you very far in life.
Try your best to find a way to love your work and you'll immediately have great success.
That is not to say that you must become a workaholic. Because when you find something that you absolutely love to do, it's not work. Obsession with making money creates workaholics. Focusing on limitation creates workaholic. Don't focus pn making money, because then you'll be working. Focus instead on creating your dream job, on doing what you love to do the most. The money will come, but it is only one measure of your success. More importantly, you'll grow as a person. You'll grow into the person you were meant to be. You will fulfill your potential and make your unique contribution to the world. And that is worth far more than any check that anyone could write to you.
If your goal is to get to the point where you never have to work again, perhaps you should examine the nature of your work.
Hating what you do will probably not get you very far in life.
Try your best to find a way to love your work and you'll immediately have great success.
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Human Nature
Human nature has not changed a bit since stone age.
All the advancement of science cound not change the human nature.
All the wealth of the world cound not change the human nature.
All the laws of the world cound not change the human nature.
All the religions of the world cound not change the human nature.
All the medicines of the world could not change the human nature.
All the wise and great men and women of the world could not change the human nature.
Most of us are still selfish.
Most of us are still greedy.
Most of us are still hate each other.
Most of us are still conscious of our color, race, and creed.
Most of us are still don't help each other.
Now the obvious question is why?
I don't know the answer.
I welcome your ideas on this important issue.
All the advancement of science cound not change the human nature.
All the wealth of the world cound not change the human nature.
All the laws of the world cound not change the human nature.
All the religions of the world cound not change the human nature.
All the medicines of the world could not change the human nature.
All the wise and great men and women of the world could not change the human nature.
Most of us are still selfish.
Most of us are still greedy.
Most of us are still hate each other.
Most of us are still conscious of our color, race, and creed.
Most of us are still don't help each other.
Now the obvious question is why?
I don't know the answer.
I welcome your ideas on this important issue.
Saturday, July 7, 2007
Healthy Ways To Express Hurt And Anger
Be honest with yourself....have an honest dialogue with yourself each morning about what is bothering you. give yourself the time to reflect on these issues in a place where you will not be distracted.
Seek support....sahre your feelings with someone who will understand your needs your reason for being angry without criticizing or judging you.
Direct your anger....your ability to channel anger can make all the difference in whether your feelings are positive or negative. Properly directed, anger can be a driving force in your life. But if channeled incrrectly, it can become mentally and physically destructive.
Think first....the old proverb that tells us to count to ten when we feel angry has a great deal of merit. eflection allows you to think before you react. You can consider what you want to say, why you want to say it and what will happen when you do. You can think through your options and react in a rational way. In the process, you free yourself from conditioned responses and focus on those that will improve the situation.
Be active, not passive....if you are passive in a situation that calls for action, your submissiveness will allow other people to take advantage of you. And this experience, in turn, will breed even more anger. Take action to resolve such situation. Get support if necessary.
Act, don't react....every time something angers you, ask yourself whether you will act or react to it. Being active allows you to maintain a sense of focus; being reactive does not.
Don't hurt anyone....uncontrolled anger can lead to violence on many levels. Domestic violence results from unmitigated anger, while war results from the egotism of leaders.
Seek support....sahre your feelings with someone who will understand your needs your reason for being angry without criticizing or judging you.
Direct your anger....your ability to channel anger can make all the difference in whether your feelings are positive or negative. Properly directed, anger can be a driving force in your life. But if channeled incrrectly, it can become mentally and physically destructive.
Think first....the old proverb that tells us to count to ten when we feel angry has a great deal of merit. eflection allows you to think before you react. You can consider what you want to say, why you want to say it and what will happen when you do. You can think through your options and react in a rational way. In the process, you free yourself from conditioned responses and focus on those that will improve the situation.
Be active, not passive....if you are passive in a situation that calls for action, your submissiveness will allow other people to take advantage of you. And this experience, in turn, will breed even more anger. Take action to resolve such situation. Get support if necessary.
Act, don't react....every time something angers you, ask yourself whether you will act or react to it. Being active allows you to maintain a sense of focus; being reactive does not.
Don't hurt anyone....uncontrolled anger can lead to violence on many levels. Domestic violence results from unmitigated anger, while war results from the egotism of leaders.
Friday, July 6, 2007
Powerful Thoughts On Competition
By competition the total amount of supply is increased, and by increase of the supply a competion in the sale ensues, and this enables the consumer to buy at lower rates. Of all human powers operating on the affairs of mankind, none is greater than that of competition.
Henry Clay
Don't knock your competitors. By boosting others you will boost yourself. A little competition is a good thing and severe competition is a blessing. Thank God for competition.
Jacob Kindleberger
You cannot do away the competitive system so long as trademarks remain to distinguish one product from another. You cannot cut out large-scale manufacture so long as there are established brands which breed consumer confidence and thus make mass production not only possible and profitable, but also economical.
Philip Salisbury
our partnership with associates is the reason our company has been able to consistently out perform the competition and even our own expectations.
Sam Walton
Today's competitiveness, so much imposed from without, is exhausting, not exhilarating; is unending....a part of one's social life, one's solitude, one's sleep, one's sleeplessness.
Louis Kronenberger
Our Creator has put in us hungers that this earth cannot satisfy. We cannot be completely self-contained on earth. Physical sense cannot give us a full life, nor can knowledge alone. No life is full unless it is linked to something that goes on after we are dead....if we have nothing more to live for than just to get ahead in a competitive system, then democracy will go down before other philosophies.
Ralph W. Sockmam
In business, the competion will bite you if you keep running; if you stand still, they will swallow you.
Semon Knudsen
There is tendency among some businesses to criticize and belittle their competitors. This is a bad procedure. Praise them. Learn from them. There are times when you can co-operate with them to their advantage and to yours! Speak well of them and they will speak well of you. You can't destroy good ideas. Take advantage of them.
George Matthew Adam
Henry Clay
Don't knock your competitors. By boosting others you will boost yourself. A little competition is a good thing and severe competition is a blessing. Thank God for competition.
Jacob Kindleberger
You cannot do away the competitive system so long as trademarks remain to distinguish one product from another. You cannot cut out large-scale manufacture so long as there are established brands which breed consumer confidence and thus make mass production not only possible and profitable, but also economical.
Philip Salisbury
our partnership with associates is the reason our company has been able to consistently out perform the competition and even our own expectations.
Sam Walton
Today's competitiveness, so much imposed from without, is exhausting, not exhilarating; is unending....a part of one's social life, one's solitude, one's sleep, one's sleeplessness.
Louis Kronenberger
Our Creator has put in us hungers that this earth cannot satisfy. We cannot be completely self-contained on earth. Physical sense cannot give us a full life, nor can knowledge alone. No life is full unless it is linked to something that goes on after we are dead....if we have nothing more to live for than just to get ahead in a competitive system, then democracy will go down before other philosophies.
Ralph W. Sockmam
In business, the competion will bite you if you keep running; if you stand still, they will swallow you.
Semon Knudsen
There is tendency among some businesses to criticize and belittle their competitors. This is a bad procedure. Praise them. Learn from them. There are times when you can co-operate with them to their advantage and to yours! Speak well of them and they will speak well of you. You can't destroy good ideas. Take advantage of them.
George Matthew Adam
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Love Is Essential For Success And Happiness
Love is one form or another is the ruling element in life. It is the main source from which springs all that possesses any real value to man. It may be the love of knowledge....grand secrets have been wrung from nature....secrets which have contributed much for the advancement of human interests.
Love is an actual need, and urgent requirement of the heart. Every human being who entertains an appreciation of loneliness and wretchedness, and looks forward to happiness and content, feels a necessity of lovng. Without it life is unfulfilled and hope is without aim. Love is the great healer of all life's ills....the great strengthener and beautifier.
Love is the perpetual melody of humanity. It sheds its radiance upon youth, and throws a halo around age. It glorifies the present by the light it casts backward, and it lightens the future by the gleams sent forward. The love which is the outcome of esteem has the most elevating and purifying effect of the character. It inspires gentleness, sympathy, mutual faith, and confidence.
True love also in a manner elevates the intellect.
Love even brings to light quality which before were dormant and unsuspected. It elevates the aspirations, expands the soul, and stimulates the mental capacities for success.
Love purifies the heart from the self; it strenghtens and uplift the character, gives higher motives and a nobler aim to every action of life, and makes both man and woman strong, noble, and corageous.
Return good for evil, overcome anger by love; hatred never ceases by hatred, but by love.
Love is an actual need, and urgent requirement of the heart. Every human being who entertains an appreciation of loneliness and wretchedness, and looks forward to happiness and content, feels a necessity of lovng. Without it life is unfulfilled and hope is without aim. Love is the great healer of all life's ills....the great strengthener and beautifier.
Love is the perpetual melody of humanity. It sheds its radiance upon youth, and throws a halo around age. It glorifies the present by the light it casts backward, and it lightens the future by the gleams sent forward. The love which is the outcome of esteem has the most elevating and purifying effect of the character. It inspires gentleness, sympathy, mutual faith, and confidence.
True love also in a manner elevates the intellect.
Love even brings to light quality which before were dormant and unsuspected. It elevates the aspirations, expands the soul, and stimulates the mental capacities for success.
Love purifies the heart from the self; it strenghtens and uplift the character, gives higher motives and a nobler aim to every action of life, and makes both man and woman strong, noble, and corageous.
Return good for evil, overcome anger by love; hatred never ceases by hatred, but by love.
Kick The Procrastination Habit
The Right Reasons.....you must ask yourself why you think you need to do whatever it is that you are avoiding. State the reasons why you want to or have to do it. Each reason you include in your list will be motivation toward success. If you cannot clearly say why you want or need to do it, perhaps you shouldn't be doing it at all.
Take Small Steps....you don't have to tackle the entire goal, chore, activity, job, task, project, or assignment all at once. You can take small steps, and as long as they are in the right direction, you will complete the journey successfully. Constantly remind yourself that it takes many small steps to create an enormous success. You can always take small steps, regardless of what the activity is.
Take Help Of Index Cards.....write out on an index card or on any piece of paper, the thing you are avoiding. Place the card in areas that you pass by often. You can put them on the fridge, on the bathroom mirror, in your purse or wallet, or on your desk. These small reminders will help you to get you motivated to start working.
Visualize When It's Finally Over....sit in a quiet room and close your eyes and picture what it will feel like when you are finally finished. Whether it's homework, working out, eating healthy, giving up smoking, waking up early, being positive, helping others, or writing a book, you will have the motivation you desire after seeing the finished product in your mind. If you simply start now, you will definitely get there.
What's Making You Procrastinate?.....what are you avoiding? If you can't seem to start working on a goal you have created, perhaps you need to take a second look at what you thought you wanted. Chores and required work are different, you usually just have to do it. It's a different story when you are putting off things you once desired.
Take Small Steps....you don't have to tackle the entire goal, chore, activity, job, task, project, or assignment all at once. You can take small steps, and as long as they are in the right direction, you will complete the journey successfully. Constantly remind yourself that it takes many small steps to create an enormous success. You can always take small steps, regardless of what the activity is.
Take Help Of Index Cards.....write out on an index card or on any piece of paper, the thing you are avoiding. Place the card in areas that you pass by often. You can put them on the fridge, on the bathroom mirror, in your purse or wallet, or on your desk. These small reminders will help you to get you motivated to start working.
Visualize When It's Finally Over....sit in a quiet room and close your eyes and picture what it will feel like when you are finally finished. Whether it's homework, working out, eating healthy, giving up smoking, waking up early, being positive, helping others, or writing a book, you will have the motivation you desire after seeing the finished product in your mind. If you simply start now, you will definitely get there.
What's Making You Procrastinate?.....what are you avoiding? If you can't seem to start working on a goal you have created, perhaps you need to take a second look at what you thought you wanted. Chores and required work are different, you usually just have to do it. It's a different story when you are putting off things you once desired.
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Self-Image Is Essential For Success and Happiness
Success in life is directly related to our self-image. We are not what we think we are, rather, what we think....we are. Our self-image is the sum total of the various attitudes we have developed and accepted....the way we see ourselves.
Our achievement, effectiveness and creativity is governed to a large extent by what our self-image tells us we are. We will only have, be and do what our self-image is able and willing to accept. Performance is dependent on our image of our ability to perform.
To build a more positive, yes I can, self-image, you must repaint the mental picture you hold of yourself and your abilities. Visualization of a new you creates a new, life-enriching image of yourself and the real you emerges.
Positive thinking is vital to success. Thinking positive thoughts and reciting success affirmations are great, but how deep is your belief. If only on a surface level, they will skim over your basic self-image without affecting real change.
To reprogram your self-image, you must directly to the core of your being. Who are you, anyhow. Do you really deserve success, love, happiness. Can they really be yours. How much good are you willing to accept.
To build a new, positive, creative and satisfying self-image, you must be willing to stop judging and startv loving yourself unconditionally. You richly deserve love love for all that you arer, all that you are not, all that you are becoming.
Our achievement, effectiveness and creativity is governed to a large extent by what our self-image tells us we are. We will only have, be and do what our self-image is able and willing to accept. Performance is dependent on our image of our ability to perform.
To build a more positive, yes I can, self-image, you must repaint the mental picture you hold of yourself and your abilities. Visualization of a new you creates a new, life-enriching image of yourself and the real you emerges.
Positive thinking is vital to success. Thinking positive thoughts and reciting success affirmations are great, but how deep is your belief. If only on a surface level, they will skim over your basic self-image without affecting real change.
To reprogram your self-image, you must directly to the core of your being. Who are you, anyhow. Do you really deserve success, love, happiness. Can they really be yours. How much good are you willing to accept.
To build a new, positive, creative and satisfying self-image, you must be willing to stop judging and startv loving yourself unconditionally. You richly deserve love love for all that you arer, all that you are not, all that you are becoming.
Get Rid Of Doubt With Positive Thoughts
Doubt is nothing more than a thought, a thought over which you complete control. Doubt is a thought which you can dispose of whenever you choose to do so.
One very effective way to dispose of those negative thoughts of doubt is to replace them with positive thoughts. If doubt is holding you back in life, then choose to push these thoughts out of your mind with more positive, empowering thoughts.
If it's possible for you to think that you cannot, then it's just as possible for you to know that you can. It's simply a matter of replacing one negative thoughtv of doubt with positive of confidence. Thoughts of doubt will hold you back. Thoughts of confidence will push you forward. It's easy to see which thoughts will be more beneficial to you.
Is it really so difficult to transform "I can't do this" into "I will do this?" It's a matter of choice and you are the person who is going to make that choice. And that choice can make all the difference in the world.
You must push the doubts out of your thinking. Fill your mind with so many thoughts of confidence that there's no room left for doubt. Free yourself of doubt, and you'll be free to achieve whatever you decide to pursue....sky will be the limit.
One very effective way to dispose of those negative thoughts of doubt is to replace them with positive thoughts. If doubt is holding you back in life, then choose to push these thoughts out of your mind with more positive, empowering thoughts.
If it's possible for you to think that you cannot, then it's just as possible for you to know that you can. It's simply a matter of replacing one negative thoughtv of doubt with positive of confidence. Thoughts of doubt will hold you back. Thoughts of confidence will push you forward. It's easy to see which thoughts will be more beneficial to you.
Is it really so difficult to transform "I can't do this" into "I will do this?" It's a matter of choice and you are the person who is going to make that choice. And that choice can make all the difference in the world.
You must push the doubts out of your thinking. Fill your mind with so many thoughts of confidence that there's no room left for doubt. Free yourself of doubt, and you'll be free to achieve whatever you decide to pursue....sky will be the limit.
Everything Has A Price
A person in control is a person who can perceive realities correctly. And one of the most important realities to understand is that absolutely everything in life has a price: love, friendship, material gain, a relaxed mind, the freedom to come and go as you please....anything which adds pleasure to your existence. If you think otherwise, you only open the door to endless frustration. Whether the required payment be in money, time, energy, discomfort, try not to kid yourself. Just pay it so that you can enjoy the rewards of a clear mind and a happier life.
Eliminating people problems requires that you face the reality that people possess an unlimited number of potentially harmful traits, that you learn the art of spotting these harmful traits.....That you develop the ability and self-discipline either to ignore their harmful actions or, in extreme cases, just stop meeting them.
Intimidation....motivation through fear....is one of the ways people use to cause others problems. You should not get into their traps.
When someone bugs you with irrational rhetoric actions, just ignore him. That is the best way. You have no obligation to deal with irrational people. You have a right to live your life as you please. You should live on your own terms.
Eliminating people problems requires that you face the reality that people possess an unlimited number of potentially harmful traits, that you learn the art of spotting these harmful traits.....That you develop the ability and self-discipline either to ignore their harmful actions or, in extreme cases, just stop meeting them.
Intimidation....motivation through fear....is one of the ways people use to cause others problems. You should not get into their traps.
When someone bugs you with irrational rhetoric actions, just ignore him. That is the best way. You have no obligation to deal with irrational people. You have a right to live your life as you please. You should live on your own terms.
Failure: Making It Work For You
Without failing, you cannot succeed. Succeeding the first time simply does not happen very often. What are the chances that you can try something new and do it successdully on the first try? With a little logical thought you will realize that id doesn't work like that.
Failing is just finding out what is not working. It's narrowing down the many possibilities until you find the right one.
Always learn from failing. If you do not learn from your mistakes, you will take nothing away from the experience. You must learn from failing. If you learn from each attempt you are succeeding.
Study each attempt. If your goal is to stop being negative, study each failure. If you find yourself becoming negative at work, take the time to think about the causes of your negativity and what you can do to remedy the situation.
Risks. A must for success and happiness. Life is too short to always play it safe. If you did this, then you would be passing up opportunity that could make your life happier and more fulfilling.
The fear of risk taking is the culprit in many unachieved dreams and goals.
Failing is just finding out what is not working. It's narrowing down the many possibilities until you find the right one.
Always learn from failing. If you do not learn from your mistakes, you will take nothing away from the experience. You must learn from failing. If you learn from each attempt you are succeeding.
Study each attempt. If your goal is to stop being negative, study each failure. If you find yourself becoming negative at work, take the time to think about the causes of your negativity and what you can do to remedy the situation.
Risks. A must for success and happiness. Life is too short to always play it safe. If you did this, then you would be passing up opportunity that could make your life happier and more fulfilling.
The fear of risk taking is the culprit in many unachieved dreams and goals.
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